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Pick your corner
Couples post for different reasons, so the listings are split to save you time.
- Couples looking for a man: she is curious, he is confident enough to watch or join
- Couples looking for a woman: a warm, relaxed meeting with someone who is comfortable with two
- Couples looking for couples: foursomes, friendship and flirting across the table
Read widely before choosing. Tone tells you a lot, and you will quickly sense which ads come from people who are relaxed, respectful and clear.
Thinking about a threesome
A threesome sounds simple in the fantasy and is more delicate in practice. Feelings can surprise you. Jealousy can appear from nowhere. That is normal, and it is why the best couples treat the idea as a joint project rather than one partner's wish.
Talk through what each of you would enjoy, and what would sting. Agree a word that stops everything. Then try meeting for a drink or a chat first, with no pressure to do anything beyond conversation.
First-time couples
Nerves are part of the charm. If this is your first time, say so. Most people respond kindly and slow right down. A first meeting can be nothing more than good conversation, and walking away without regret is a perfectly good outcome.
Do not feel you must perform. Enthusiasm and honesty make better company than bravado.
Ground rules worth having
Every couple's list is different, but these tend to matter:
- Agree limits before you meet, and review them afterwards
- Consent is ongoing, and anyone can change their mind
- Protection is non-negotiable
- Respect privacy, including photos and names
- Never pressure the third person
Single and curious about joining a pair? Browse the swingers section for a wider view of the scene, or post your own ad to say what you are after.
Frequently asked questions
Can a single person reply to a couple's ad? Yes, if the couple's ad welcomes singles. Read what they are looking for and respond politely and honestly.
What if one partner is not sure? Then wait. Everyone involved should be enthusiastic, and a hesitant yes is better treated as a no.
Is it free to post as a couple? Yes, posting and browsing are free.
How do we start? Write an honest ad together, agree your rules, and chat with people before meeting anyone.