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Soft swap and full swap

The terms sound technical, but the idea is simple. Soft swap means couples enjoy each other's company, kissing and touching, without full intercourse. Full swap goes the whole way. Many couples begin soft and decide later, or stay soft forever, and both are completely fine.

The point is to agree it ahead of time. The best ads state which style the couple prefers, so there are no awkward surprises in the room.

House parties and quiet meetings

Some couples prefer an intimate evening with one other pair. Others enjoy a private house party with a handful of guests who have all been chatting beforehand. Either way, the vibe is closer to a good dinner party than a free-for-all, with lots of laughter and a few knowing looks.

Browse ads from couples across the island in the Irish swingers listings, or use the city pages to see who is posting in Dublin, Cork and beyond.

Hotwife and cuckold fantasies

Some of the hottest scenes happen mostly in the imagination. In hotwife arrangements, a woman enjoys other men with her partner's full enthusiasm, and the story is part of the thrill. If that rings your bell, take a look at the hotwife ads.

Then there is dogging, which for most people lives purely as fantasy talk. Anything done where others could stumble on you is illegal, so keep it to role play and private, consensual settings. The dogging fantasy ads are there for the chat, nothing more.

Etiquette that keeps everyone smiling

Good swingers are polite swingers. The golden rules are easy to remember:

• No means no, the first time, with no sulking
• The couple sets the rules and everyone respects them
• Be clear about protection
• Keep photos and names private
• Show up honest, sober enough to consent and kind

If you want to write your own ad, post it here in minutes. Honest ads attract the best replies.

Frequently asked questions

Are there swingers in Cork and Dublin? Yes, couples and singles post from across the island, including Cork, Dublin and plenty of smaller towns.

What is the difference between soft and full swap? Soft swap stops short of intercourse, while full swap includes it. Couples agree which they prefer beforehand.

Is posting free? Browsing and posting ads are free.

Can singles join? Some ads welcome singles. Read each ad closely and respect what the couple has asked for.